The Hindu , February 3, 2014
Do you end up feeling as an evil parent, when you refuse a
howling child something he vociferously demands? Today’s parents
can end up satisfying every whim of their child or feel guilty
when they have taken a stand that has upset the child.
“Most cultures are afraid of children crying, but crying is
healthy,” reassures Helle Heckmann, Denmark-based parenting
expert and author, who espouses the Waldorf method of education.
Ms. Heckmann who interacted with parents in Puducherry on
parenting of kids below 7 years, asserted, “Remember you are in
charge, not the child.”
If a parent has made up their mind that something cannot be
given or allowed, they have to stay firm. Taking responsibility
is better parenting than bribing the child to do what you want
them to do. Maturing prematurely
While parenting may differ according to cultures, a certain
homogenisation has set in with globalisation, believes Ms.
Heckmann, who has visited over 50 countries in the course of her
world tour.
The false assumption that if a child can take in much early, the
benefits will be much more is prevalent among parents all over
the world. Parents try to capitalise on the early childhood
years, which are the most formative, setting the child goals and
activities to accomplish. These years are also the time to play,
cultivate empathy, and grow emotionally and spiritually and
learn to live in society.
Emphasising the need to protect childhood, she says, “Today, we
want them to mature before they are ready. We are constantly
shrinking the phase of childhood.” A result of this precocious
growth is the manifestation of typically adult illnesses like
obesity, diabetes, depression and burnout in children. By not
allowing the child to grow from inward and discovering what
she/he likes, we are nurturing a society that cannot think on
its own and will ultimately produce less creative beings, Ms.
Heckmann, the author of Slow Parenting feels.
“But if you can awaken the eagerness or joy of doing something
the child can learn whatever and whenever.”
But even as parents of very young children, they must set
boundaries, they must also give the child freedom within those
boundaries. It is with this perspective that Ms. Heckmann looks
at the issue of child abuse.
“A child, who is always being told what to do by an adult, may
be incapable of saying no to an abuser or knowing when to run.”
Advocating the five principles integrating for parenting young
children — rhythm, movement, sleep, nutrition and care- she
cautions that a disturbance in a set rhythm can upset a young
child.
On influence of media on young children, she suggests, “You
cannot control the world but you can decide what you can keep
out from your four walls,” reiterating the parent’s power in
making choices.
Ultimately it costs to be a parent, feels Ms. Heckmann. “Often
children get frustrated simply because you are not there by
their side.”
Weekly sessions for parents on the principles espoused by the
expert would be conducted by the organisers Akshara Vidyashraam
at Rue de la Marine.
Storytelling workshop for parents, kids
Indian Express , December 4, 2012
An interactive workshop on the art of storytelling for parents
and a book reading and drawing illustrations programme for the
children will be conducted by the Nurture Montessori school,
Anna Nagar West on December 9.
Renowned storyteller Jo Anne Saldhana, who has been in the field
for the past 10 years in India and Sri Lanka, will teach the
nuances of storytelling to parents. And for children, book
reading and illustrations will be conducted by Ashok
Rajagopalan, who has been illustrating books for children since
1989, and writing story books for the last five years. A book
exhibition will also be conducted on the same day.
For further details, contact Nurture Montessori school,
No.9,1st Street, I Block, Anna Nagar West,
Chennai- 40
P: +91 443340 7744/55 | M:+91 81444 37755
info.annanagar@nurtureschool.com www.NurtureSchool.com
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A place to nurture your kid
The Hindu, Chennai, Sunday May 29, 2011 Nurture – Montessori house of children in Anna Nagar West, has
an authentic Montessori environment equipped with scientifically
designed wood based play equipment (plastics free environment).
The staff is trained and certified by the Indian Montessori
Centre (IMC) with over 18 years of experience in preschool
education. Nurture offers 3700 sft of enclosed space with an
additional 1000 sft of garden, play area and sandpit for
children to learn, play and develop. It is a child enabled
environment where the outdoor blends beautifully into the
activity area, providing the curious minds an exciting expanse
to explore and learn. The school also has a Crèche / Daycare for
the convenience of the children and parents from 8:00 am to 7:00
p.m on weekdays.
Some of the other facilities offered for the children of
especially working parents are Modern kitchenette equipped with
fridge and microwave, Choice of Indoor games and books, Bed &
Roll-up Mats for afternoon naps, Outdoor Garden with Sandpit
area. For details call 81444-37755.
The school is conducting a Seminar on “UNDERSTANDING THE CHILD –
POSITIVE PARENTING” by Mrs. Uma Shankar, Chennai Montessori
Training Centre (CMTC) on June 4th Saturday from 3:00p.m to
5:00p.m.
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Protect childhood from shrinking: expert
The Hindu , February 3, 2014
Do you end up feeling as an evil parent, when you refuse a
howling child something he vociferously demands? Today’s parents
can end up satisfying every whim of their child or feel guilty
when they have taken a stand that has upset the child.
“Most cultures are afraid of children crying, but crying is
healthy,” reassures Helle Heckmann, Denmark-based parenting
expert and author, who espouses the Waldorf method of education.
Ms. Heckmann who interacted with parents in Puducherry on
parenting of kids below 7 years, asserted, “Remember you are in
charge, not the child.”
If a parent has made up their mind that something cannot be
given or allowed, they have to stay firm. Taking responsibility
is better parenting than bribing the child to do what you want
them to do. Maturing prematurely
While parenting may differ according to cultures, a certain
homogenisation has set in with globalisation, believes Ms.
Heckmann, who has visited over 50 countries in the course of her
world tour.
The false assumption that if a child can take in much early, the
benefits will be much more is prevalent among parents all over
the world. Parents try to capitalise on the early childhood
years, which are the most formative, setting the child goals and
activities to accomplish. These years are also the time to play,
cultivate empathy, and grow emotionally and spiritually and
learn to live in society.
Emphasising the need to protect childhood, she says, “Today, we
want them to mature before they are ready. We are constantly
shrinking the phase of childhood.” A result of this precocious
growth is the manifestation of typically adult illnesses like
obesity, diabetes, depression and burnout in children. By not
allowing the child to grow from inward and discovering what
she/he likes, we are nurturing a society that cannot think on
its own and will ultimately produce less creative beings, Ms.
Heckmann, the author of Slow Parenting feels.
“But if you can awaken the eagerness or joy of doing something
the child can learn whatever and whenever.”
But even as parents of very young children, they must set
boundaries, they must also give the child freedom within those
boundaries. It is with this perspective that Ms. Heckmann looks
at the issue of child abuse.
“A child, who is always being told what to do by an adult, may
be incapable of saying no to an abuser or knowing when to run.”
Advocating the five principles integrating for parenting young
children — rhythm, movement, sleep, nutrition and care- she
cautions that a disturbance in a set rhythm can upset a young
child.
On influence of media on young children, she suggests, “You
cannot control the world but you can decide what you can keep
out from your four walls,” reiterating the parent’s power in
making choices.
Ultimately it costs to be a parent, feels Ms. Heckmann. “Often
children get frustrated simply because you are not there by
their side.”
Weekly sessions for parents on the principles espoused by the
expert would be conducted by the organisers Akshara Vidyashraam
at Rue de la Marine.
Storytelling workshop for parents, kids
Indian Express , December 4, 2012
An interactive workshop on the art of storytelling for parents
and a book reading and drawing illustrations programme for the
children will be conducted by the Nurture Montessori school,
Anna Nagar West on December 9.
Renowned storyteller Jo Anne Saldhana, who has been in the field
for the past 10 years in India and Sri Lanka, will teach the
nuances of storytelling to parents. And for children, book
reading and illustrations will be conducted by Ashok
Rajagopalan, who has been illustrating books for children since
1989, and writing story books for the last five years. A book
exhibition will also be conducted on the same day.
For further details, contact Nurture Montessori school,
No.9,1st Street, I Block, Anna Nagar West,
Chennai- 40
P: +91 443340 7744/55 | M:+91 81444 37755
info.annanagar@nurtureschool.com www.NurtureSchool.com
A Lesson for Parents
Indian Express – Edex, September 10, 2012
Learn to teach the Montessori way
Indian Express, May 21, 2012
The montessori phenomenon
The Hindu Feb 2, 2012
Montessori system boosts confidence, say experts
Deccan Chronicle, Jan 22, 2012
Providing the best through montessori method
Indian Express, Jan 29, 2012
A place to nurture your kid
The Hindu, Chennai, Sunday May 29, 2011 Nurture – Montessori house of children in Anna Nagar West, has
an authentic Montessori environment equipped with scientifically
designed wood based play equipment (plastics free environment).
The staff is trained and certified by the Indian Montessori
Centre (IMC) with over 18 years of experience in preschool
education. Nurture offers 3700 sft of enclosed space with an
additional 1000 sft of garden, play area and sandpit for
children to learn, play and develop. It is a child enabled
environment where the outdoor blends beautifully into the
activity area, providing the curious minds an exciting expanse
to explore and learn. The school also has a Crèche / Daycare for
the convenience of the children and parents from 8:00 am to 7:00
p.m on weekdays.
Some of the other facilities offered for the children of
especially working parents are Modern kitchenette equipped with
fridge and microwave, Choice of Indoor games and books, Bed &
Roll-up Mats for afternoon naps, Outdoor Garden with Sandpit
area. For details call 81444-37755.
The school is conducting a Seminar on “UNDERSTANDING THE CHILD –
POSITIVE PARENTING” by Mrs. Uma Shankar, Chennai Montessori
Training Centre (CMTC) on June 4th Saturday from 3:00p.m to
5:00p.m.